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BY JULIE LUJANO D oes this sound like you Youve been trying to play the field with little success. Youve been looking and looking but you just cant meet nice interesting girls at any bars or grocery stores.And then you decide to join OKCupid or Match but you think to yourself I feel stupid doing this whole online dating thing. Youve already shot yourself in the foot with that thinking. The most important thing when first jumping into online dating is to approach it with an open mind. If youre reading this Im making the assumption that youre interested in getting to know a woman and actually dating her not just hooking up with her. If youre looking for an easy lay you probably know how to find it and dont need any advice from me on how to do it. For those of you who are looking for a real connection with a nice confident self- respecting woman then gentlemen listen up. Heres your guide to attracting a good woman online and hopefully keeping them coming back for more. DONT post unflattering photos of yourself on your profile. DO use photos that portray you in the best light and show off your personality. The saying a picture is worth a thousand words is a clich for a reason.Your main profile picture is the first point of contact that a woman has with you and that photo is used all over the dating site -- every time you like someone send a message or show up in a search. Its crucial to first make sure that you have a photo and then make sure its your best photo. Nice ladies do not want to see you looking like a thug or flexing while shirtless in a bathroom mirror selfie. One girl I interviewed even went so far as to say that as soon as she saw a car picture or a group photo she automatically skipped that profile. You should have at least one picture where we can clearly see your face and youre smiling genuinely. If you need to capture that look but dont know how put yourself in a good frame of mind by spending some time with a friend whose company you enjoy. A friend can make you laugh and even take the great photo for you. You should also include a full body photo so we can get a sense of what you really look like. Remember not to take yourself so seriously. Let your personality shine in your photos. If youre an outdoorsman take a picture outside. Put up a photo that shows off the real you. Women would rather see an action photo of you at the beach than a blurry one of you at the bar getting plastered with your friends. Online Dating for Men 10 DOS DONTS 22 WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETAUGUST2015