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16 www.flipmagazine.netFebrar2016 JRF holds a Bachelor of Arts in Linguistics with a minor in Psychology from Swarthmore College. She resides in LA with her boyfriend and two cats where she writes acts and educates teenagers. In her free time she enjoys gaming painting reading creating tea concoctions and of course Netix and chilling. Fill a notebook with a loving thought per page. Consider treasured relationship memories something you love about her or words of encouragement or appreciation. Post notes or captioned photos around her apartmenthouse. Choose places where she will see them as she goes about her routine. Alternatively place them in hidden places if privacy isnt an issue where you prompt her to look with verbal requests or written clues. i.e. Could I borrow your copy of Scandalous Behavior and thus she discovers the sweet post-it note on the book cover. Every hour look into her eyes and give her a specic sincere compliment. Make her the subject of the compliment i.e. You are adorable beautifulsmokinin that dress not That dress is nice. Dont get frustrated if she disagrees with you- she still hears you. Write a love letter better still send it snail mail timed to arrive on V-Day. Alternatively you could writeread a love poem or writeperform a love song if you are able. Always consider her taste in your selections- picking a favorite can go a long way If you save mementos of relationships assemble them all in a box. Put a sweet note on top. Label what things are or tell her as you go through the box together. If words are not your strength let other artists do the talking nd poems passages or songs that communicate how you feel. Get her chocolates with wrappers. Hide a short but sweet message in each wrapper like a fortune chocolate. Ferrero Rochers would be perfect. www.flipmagazine.netFebrar2016www.flipmagazine.netFebrar2016 JRF holds a Bachelor of Arts in Linguistics with a minor in Psychology from Swarthmore College. She resides in LA with her Fill a notebook with a loving thought per page. Consider treasured relationship memories something you love about her or words of encouragement or appreciation. Post notes or captioned photos around her apartmenthouse. Choose places where she will see them as she goes about her routine. Alternatively place them in hidden places if privacy isnt an issue where you prompt her to look with verbal requests or written clues. i.e. Could I borrow your copy of Behavior and thus she discovers the sweetBehavior and thus she discovers the sweetBehavior post-it note on the book cover. Every hour look into her eyes and give her a specic sincere subject of the compliment i.e. beautifulsmokinin that dress not nice. Dont get frustrated if she disagrees with you- she still hears you. WORDS Shut down your devices for the entire day. Talk and interact with each other sans Facebook. If you get work callsemails on Sundays consider using an automated out-of-the-ofce email and at least forgo social media. Read a favorite book of hers in advance- something she has mentioned multiple times. Then surprise her with a discussion on V-Day. Watch that movie she keeps bugging you to see and talk about it afterwards be nice though. Alternatively watch Rom Coms together research2 has shown that watching romantic lms and discussing them is a more comfortable way for couples to communicate about their own relationship. Double benet. Do an activity she loves distraction-free. Again even better if its something she keeps asking you to do with her. Help her with something she has been procrastinating whether its re-painting the bedroom or getting an oil change. Weather permitting take her to her favorite park. Try ying kites together-- its pretty rewarding and requires some teamwork. See Words 5. Alright now that you think you know your ladys love language you can nd corresponding V-Day suggestions. Some ideas appeal to multiple types and are re-referenced. As a disclaimer this is not absolute science if you think one of the ideas ts another language go for it Also remember though YOU may nd some of these gestures unoriginal sappy or not your style go for the thing that SHE would appreciate most. QUALITY TIME 2 httpwww.rochester.edunewsdivorce-rate-cut-in-half-for-couples-who-discussed-relationship-movies